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why I never learnt to knot a tie.

Hi, my name is Armstrong Adams, and I'm a 23-year-old African male who is currently single and hasn't yet experienced intimacy or romantic encounters. It may sound unusual, considering that I am considered attractive both facially and physically, thanks to my regular visits to the gym, skin care routine and other self-improvement stuff. However, despite these attributes, there's one skill I never quite acquired—tying a necktie. You see, during my upbringing, my father emphasized the importance of wearing ties as a symbol of sophistication. Strangely enough, I deliberately avoided learning how to tie a tie, either by closing my eyes or distracting my mind whenever my dad, mom, or elder sister tried to teach me. The reason behind my peculiar behavior stems from my fondness for romantic movies. I was captivated by the scenes where a man is preparing for work, and his partner lovingly assists him in knotting his tie. Admittedly, it might seem like a silly reason, but it's t
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our generation misunderstands the point of a relationship

I want to start this post by saying that relationships are okay because, after all, we humans are wired to crave finding a soulmate or our other halves and walking this journey called life with them. In this social media age, we are exposed to a lot of content, some of which we find agreeable and others with which we disagree. Specifically, when talking about relationships, we often draw understanding from celebrities, movies, and various other sources. Now, let's address the question that prompted me to write this post: "What's the point of a relationship?" I'd like to discuss the reasons most people enter into relationships which are wrong, and relationship can be damaged by these motive's. Then, I'll share what I think should be the reason for starting a relationship. Physical attraction (sex) : This is the primary reason people pursue relationships these days. As humans, we have a chemical reaction in our brains that makes it difficult to resist the de

is double texting bad.

First of all what prompted this post was that someone asked me is double texting a turn off? So, in this post am going to touch certain key areas such as, what is double texting and what are the implications and is double texting bad or is double texting a turn off.  Double texting is when you send two or more text messages to someone before they send you a response and both of those text have a serious time difference for example the first message would show 11:20AM and the second one would show 6:39PM. The general idea is that you can't wait long enough for a response after the first message so you decide to send a second message, the key feature of double texting is the time difference, if you send two or maybe even three or more messages at a time in my personal opinion that doesn't qualify for double texting although some people still think it does. I believe if you are chatting with someone and you need to express yourself clearly its okay to send multiple texts but if th

why I don't comment on girls pictures

"Why? Because it's weak. That's the brief answer. And yes, I'm a sensible person, so I know that some good relationships have started from comments and DMs, especially in this day and age when social media is responsible for a significant number of relationships and friendships. I'm not saying you shouldn't give a girl compliments. Obviously, if someone looks good, you shouldn't be afraid to confidently express it. However, a compliment should serve as a lead into a conversation, which can lead to familiarity and eventually meeting in person. This could potentially make her or him a real-life partner because, let's be honest, leaving a compliment in the first place means you find the person attractive and open to the possibility of a relationship. Let me provide an example to clarify what I mean when I say I don't comment on girls' pictures. casual comment on girl pic to impress her like "hey beautiful," "you look gorgeous,"

Why Do Girls Fall for Those Who Don't Love Them Back?

Human emotions, particularly the concept of love and attraction, have long intrigued many. In this post, we will delve into the realm of female attraction, shedding light on several key questions: Can you fall in love with someone who doesn't feel the same? What to do if girl doesn't feel the same about you? Can a girl have feelings for more than one person? What factors contribute to a girl falling for you? Why do intense feelings for someone sometimes fade quickly ? How do I stop having feeling for someone who doesn't feel the same way? Do I still have a chance if a girl knows I like her? Let's explore the primary focus of this post, which is understanding why some girls develop an interest in individuals who do not reciprocate their feelings. Self-worth plays a significant role. Females often seek attention, particularly from the opposite sex, as it validates their attractiveness and boosts their self-esteem. When a man shows no interest, she may feel surprised and

Can STI come from oral sex.

  While many people are aware of the risks associated with unprotected vaginal and anal sex, there is often confusion surrounding the transmission of STIs through oral sex. In this blog post, we will explore the question that many people don't have an answer to: Can STIs pass through oral sex? And can STIs come from oral sex? Simply put, yes, STIs can be transmitted through oral sex. Here's a mind-blowing fact: STIs can also be transmitted to the male receiving oral sex. However, this depends on the specific STI in question. Firstly, let's discuss the difference between STIs and STDs because people often wonder why STI instead of STD. They essentially refer to the same thing. The only difference lies in the terminology and the fact that a sexually transmitted infection, if left untreated, can develop into a sexually transmitted disease. STIs include chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, genital herpes, etc. The mode of transmission can vary based on the specific sexually transmi

Body count meaning and it's effects on us.

Introduction : Both a high body count and a low body count have disadvantages. Those with a high body count are slut-shamed, while those with a low body count are laughed at and considered inexperienced. One might think it's best to find a middle ground. Before we delve into the meaning of body count and its effects, I'd like to address the main questions that prompted this post: When is a body count considered too high? Can body count be measured or quantified? Why does body count matter, and is it important? How does body count affect relationships? How does body count work? Defining Body Count: Simply put, body count refers to the number of sexual partners someone has had. Even if someone has had repeated sexual encounters with the same person, it still counts as a body count of one. So, what is considered too high of a body count, and what is considered acceptable? Based on personal opinions and social media discussions, a body count not exceeding 6 or 5 is generally consi